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Sister M. Perpetua (Meyer), CSC

Sister M. Perpetua (Meyer), CSC 

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Sister M. Perpetua, CSC

(Frances Joan Meyer)

July 13, 1929 – April 19, 2018

Word has been received of the death of Sister M. Perpetua (Meyer), CSC, in Saint Mary’s Convent, Notre Dame, Indiana. Sister M. Perpetua entered the Congregation from Princeton, New Jersey, on September 8, 1950. Her initial profession of vows took place on August 15, 1953.

Sister M. Perpetua’s family tree in Trenton, New Jersey, flowered four shoots in the Congregation of the Sisters of the Holy Cross. Before Joan Meyer entered the Congregation at 21 years old in 1950, her Aunt Mildred, Sister M. Rita Carmel (Meredith), who died in 1981, guided her through the application process. Joan’s great aunt, Sister M. Bethania (Wilson) had died in 1872, not as long-lived as her other great aunt, Mother M. Perpetua (Wilson), who served as Superior General 1900-1919. One wonders why her mother, Olivia R. Meredith, and especially her father, Anthony J. Meyer, objected so strenuously to their only daughter entering the convent. But Joan heeded the counsel of a high school priest-teacher who told her “to wait until she was of age and then she was free to do as she chose.”  So, she waited and worked two years in the library at Princeton University, finally pressing for a sure date to enter so she could give her notice to the library “and not leave the place in a mess.” She wrote her Aunt Mildred that she hoped “I will be as good a sister as God could possibly want. The thought of it frightens me a little, however I refuse to be a half-baked sister.”

Thus, Joan Meyer became the fourth religious vocation, firmly rooted in the Tree of Holy Cross.  It is surprising that the young novice received the name Perpetua at the time of her Reception of the Holy Habit on August 15, 1951. However, Sister Perpetua proved to be as strong, disciplined and practical in nourishing the Tree of Holy Cross for nearly 54 years (1958-2012) in her missionary activity in East Pakistan (later called Bangladesh) and India as her legendary namesake had been in improving the “order and union” of community life and the Congregation’s material progress. Sister Perpetua was never known to be “a half-baked sister.” She bore her name well but the next generations in the Congregation knew little of Mother Perpetua. The youth of Dhaka—whether at Holy Cross College, Bottomley Home Orphanage, or the poor children on its streets—knew only Sister Perpetua, a foreign woman who spoke their language and gave practical help.

From 1980-2012, Sister Perpetua was involved in vocation promotion and formation (training young candidates and sisters) in Savar, Dhaka and Bangalore, India. Her degrees were in education with a concentration in psychology and guidance. She had the lived experience of being a mature, seasoned consecrated religious who was eager to promote indigenous vocations as the local church continued to increase its witness within its own culture. Appropriately, the novitiate in Savar was named Dapaneeta (“House of Light”).  Since Sister Perpetua’s retirement to Saint Mary’s in 2012, she continued to be involved with novices, now from several other continents, with the International Novitiate’s move to the motherhouse. The Tree of Holy Cross still thrives.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Sisters of the Holy Cross Ministry with the Poor Fund in Sister’s name.

 Written by Catherine Osimo, CSC