In Loving Memory...

Sister M. Frances Eugene, CSC
(Mary Frances Boydston)
Birth: January 13, 1917
Profession: February 2, 1937
Death: April 16, 2006
When some of us gathered Easter Sunday afternoon to pray with Frances
in her room, there was a strong sense of Resurrection peace and joy.
Frances seemed to arrange this last vigil as she did all things: quietly,
graciously and with great dignity. Her thoughtfulness precluded her
interrupting the beautiful liturgies of Holy Week, the Easter Vigil,
Easter Sunday Mass. Nor did she want to interrupt the festive Easter
dinner before taking leave of us. At her bedside as we awaited the arrival
of some of her friends, Sister Joy suggested that we sing a song. We began
almost simultaneously “Hail Mary, full of grace, blessed are you among
women.” These words must have echoed clearly in the ears and heart of
Frances, for her countenance changed visibly to one of radiant joy. At the
words “now and at the hour of our death,” Frances breathed her final
“Amen,” an “Amen” to all that has been these 89 years of her life,
these nearly 72 years in the family of Holy Cross.
Mary Frances, the daughter of Everett and Frances Elizabeth Boydston,
was born in Oakland, Nebraska, in 1917. Sharing family life with her were
her brother John, who survives her in North Carolina, and her sister
Martha, who is deceased. Frances obtained her early education at Saint
Patrick’s Academy in Sidney, Nebraska, until the family moved to
Ogallala where Frances went to the public school. Mr. Boydston’s
employment with the telephone company occasioned transfers and the family
relocated in Fresno, California, where, to the delight of Mrs. Boydston,
the children were able to attend a Catholic school, Saint John’s
Academy, where the Sisters of the Holy Cross taught. Among Frances’
teachers was Sister Leona (Knickerbocker), who counseled Frances when she
made known her interest in a religious vocation. An interesting
coincidence occurred during Frances’ freshman year at the academy. When
writing an English assignment made by Sister Patricianne McGinnis, also
from Nebraska, she mentioned Saint Patrick’s Academy in Sidney. Sister
Patricianne eagerly made known that her sister was a member of the
religious faculty there. From Saint John’s senior class of 1934 Frances
and three other young women entered Saint Mary’s Novitiate: Sisters
Marilyn Boomer, Joseph Ann Kacerak and Isabel Pimental. The following year
Sister Olivia Marie joined her high school friends in Holy Cross.
In addition to her brother, Sister Frances is survived by two nephews,
Stephen and Thomas Timsak of California, sons of her sister Martha. Martha
died when the boys were very young. The family encouraged their father
Richard to remarry. In God’s loving providence Dick and Stephanie met
and married; they provided a loving, supportive home in which they reared
the boys. Frances often visited them in Fresno; before her journey here to
Saint Mary’s, Dick and Stephanie came to see her in Ventura.
Frances’ entire life exemplified great virtue. Her quiet, gentle
manner radiated joy and a “twinkle in her eye” sense of humor, which
evoked many joyful moments. Her life-long deep appreciation of nature
fostered her spiritual growth. She treasured the Rocky Mountains where her
family enjoyed camping trips during summer months, the California giant
sequoias near Fresno, the mighty palms in Ventura and the serenity of the
great Pacific Ocean. For her these were special contacts with the Creator.
Her many years of daily walking a portion of El Camino Real, as she
faithfully went from San Buenaventura Mission Convent to Saint Catherine
by the Sea, served her well as she continued to discover God’s beauty,
ultimately experienced here at Saint Mary’s, now fully embraced in
heaven.
Outstanding among her virtues were Frances’ unlimited service and
availability to others. Her ministries of teaching and of accounting were
characterized by an imperturbable, patient response no matter when or what
the requests, even in the midst of totaling a long column of figures or
verifying charges for long distance phone calls. Her confident transition
from one duty to the next was seamless in its faith dimension.
On Easter Sunday she completed her earthly portion of the Paschal
Mystery; in this as in all else, with joyful fidelity she humbly
proclaimed once more, “Here I am, Lord, I come to do your will!”
Written by Sister Patricia Ann Thompson, CSC
Memorial contributions may be made to the Sisters of the Holy Cross
Ministry With the Poor Fund, Saint Mary’s, Notre Dame, Indiana 46556.
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