In Loving Memory...

Sister Bernadette Marie, CSC
(Eleanor Teresa Downey)
Birth: August 1, 1907
Profession: January 6, 1936
Death: March 4, 2004
There probably is a patron saint for secretaries. I do not know, but I
would like to name Sister Bernadette Marie for that celestial position.
Her qualifications would impress everyone on the heavenly board. She spent
her entire religious life at Saint Mary’s College, 36 years as secretary
to the president of the college – five of them in all – beginning with
Sister Madeleva. She was the perfect secretary, a good typist, a master of
the English language, and a good keeper of secrets. The sisters with whom
she lived never learned anything about conditions or problems at the
college. Not a thing.
She was a warm, friendly and loving companion. Eleanor Downey, called
Nellie by family and friends, was born August 1, 1907, in Saint Joseph,
Missouri, to Michael Downey and his wife Eleanor (also called Nellie)
Welch. She was the sixth child in a family that would eventually number
eight. Her elementary and secondary school education was completed at the
Convent of the Sacred Heart in Atchison, Kansas. She then spent a year at
Gard’s Business School in Saint Joseph. After graduation she found a
position doing secretarial work for lawyers.
She learned about Holy Cross from her sister Catherine (Sister John
Berchmans, who during the administration of Mother Rose Elizabeth, started
the Campus School). She also learned about Holy Cross from a young Father
Buddy who had two sisters in Holy Cross. At the age of 26 she entered the
novitiate. She received the habit January 6, 1934, made first vows in 1936
and final vows on August 15, 1939.
For 49 years she worked at the college as secretary to Sister Madeleva
and the four presidents following, and then for 12 years, she organized
and directed the college archives. She also did the obituaries for the
sisters. It was a different world. The student body numbered 310. She grew
with the college. She saw a “better rapport” develop with the
South Bend community.
Originally, she was assigned to Sister Mary Frederick, who was then
dean of studies. Madeleva’s secretary was Mother Gertrude, who was
subsequently elected to the general council as a half-time secretary,
continuing to work part-time for Sister Madeleva. When the latter needed a
full-time secretary the job fell to Bernie, “because,” as she
said, “she worked across the hall.” There she stayed during
Sister Madeleva’s tenure and that of her four successors. Sister Agnella
enjoyed teasing her about not being sent out on mission. In fact during
her pre-retirement days, the only move she made was across a hall.
In 1971 she left the president’s office and undertook a new job – one
that demanded all her powers of organization. She became director of the
college archives – but first she had to organize them. All this she had
to do without a computer, though she finally accepted an electric
typewriter. No sooner were they well organized, than she had to help plan
for the quarters in the new Cushwa-Leighton Library, and to direct the
move. In 1985, she retired. They gave her a wonderful party and, as a
gift, a combination radio and tape recorder with tapes.
She was such an organized person, but she had the most interesting
hobbies. She enjoyed Masterpiece Theater every Sunday night. I remember
watching Poldark with her and also The Palisars. When sisters downstairs
watched Wheel of Fortune or Jeopardy, or whatever was popular at that
time, she went to the second floor and watched what was then the Mac
Neil-Lehrer Report. She utilized her retirement gift especially to enjoy
the Saturday afternoon opera, and at other times to enjoy the tapes. That
joy continued the rest of her life. She also loved to read. She retained
her interest in the college and the library by her enthusiastic
participation in the “Adopt-a-Nun” program.
She remained easy to live with, quiet – never bossy – and a gentle
tease. People say she never said an unkind word about anyone. She
definitely was not a stereotype of any one kind of being – just a
gentle, quiet, loving woman, who also happened to be in the word of our
old Rule, “a generous, elevated, ardent and heroic” sister whose
going leaves an “empty place against the sky.”
Now she has really moved. She is with her family again, and because
heaven is perfection, she will not have to do any organizing. May she
thoroughly enjoy it.
Written by Sister M. Campion, CSC
Memorial contributions
may be made to the Sisters of the Holy Cross Ministry With the Poor Fund,
Saint Mary’s, Notre Dame, Indiana 46556.
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